male pms

im sure they get it, they deny it til they are blue in the face but im sure of it, in fact i googled it, i love google, and not only is there male menopause, which i'd heard of but google male pms and a match comes up for 'Irritable Male Syndrome', the male version of pms! so all these years of saying it, i really do believe its true, and hubby seems to have it atm, it just amazes me how i can see he is moody and narky for no reason, the kids can see it too, he snaps and pulls filthies, but ask him, there is nothing wrong he is fine, pffft yep ok!! why cant they just realise what fuck faces they are being and be normal? I cant help but wonder if its something that can be medicated lol, everyone is entitled to a bad day, i know i have them, days where im just so cranky for no reason, but i make a conscious effort to try and not snap peoples heads off for no reason and certainly not find things to start an argument! do something to piss me off though and i'll be shitty for hours lol, arent women like that whether pmsing or not or is it just me? its so much worse when we are both so irritable too, im hoping tomorrow is a better day <3

kids and money

this i have been pondering for awhile, how much money a child should have access to and how? should they have money for school every day? I try to teach my kids value for money and good manners and all the things i was taught and more, and this morning my miss 12 tells me i HAD to give her $2 so she could pay back her friend kaitlyn, i asked her why and she told me that when they were at sport the yesterday at our local recreation centre and miss 12  had forgotten her drink so kaitlyn offered to buy her one, which is a nice thing to do for a friend right? well kaitlyn whips out her KEYCARD and buys whatever she wanted and my miss 12's water, after miss 12 has a swig, kaitlyn turns around and tell her she owes her $2!!! now I'm left wondering why the fuck a 12 year old even has a god damn keycard that she is telling everyone is her credit card to even be able to spend willy nilly like that, and also why you would OFFER to buy you 'bff' a drink if you are only going to ask for the money back ? In my day friends just bought each other stuff, if my mate bought me a drink I'd buy her one next time not expect the money back the next day! and my girl is just like me, she will buy her friend a drink or ice cream or something if she has the spare $$ and not expect anything in return and was a little shocked when her friend asked her to bring the money back to school today, and i might add i was a little peeved at the fact she just expected me to fork it over to her as well!!! I luckily had change in my purse to give her and at the same time told her to never make debts with her friends and expect me to pay them, yeah yeah im the mum and i have to pay, i know that but she needs to learn to take her damn drink bottle yeah? i have numerous ones in the cupboard she takes for the first week of school and then never takes them again!! Or have a drink out of the frigging tap like we used to when we were kids! Is this generation of keycard wielding kids greedy little buggers that dont know how to share? At any rate i know that i wont be getting my kids keycards until they have jobs to earn money to put on the damn things!!! vent over.... for now ;-p

sometimes sharing is not caring!!

why oh why must the kidlets share their germs with me? i hate being sick, i can slowly feel myself getting worse, i feel like shit actually, achy, snotty, cloudy, bleh! its so much harder to look after sick kids when u feel like shit too :( a snotty nose doesnt seem too bad til its your own, how do the little turds still have so much energy? is it the steroids they are all on? maybe i should have a swig, i want what they're having lol it does still amaze me though how i can feel like death, like i want to curl up and sleep for a month, and still manage to clean up (not much but a little), take care of little kids, do the school drop off and pick up for the bigger kids, which i might add is almost a 30klm round trip just to the bus and back, if i have to drive them its approx 60klm there and back, cook dinner, and whatever else i need to do but on the off chance he even happens to catch the bug the rest of us have or had, he cant get out of bed except to pee!! why do they get "man flu" and we dont get 'mum flu' or something? maybe its time we play the "mum flu" card and go to bed for days and get him to wait on us?? hmmm, anyways my head is pounding, time for a nap while bubba naps me thinks <3

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So here i am creating a blog and have no clue wtf im doing! so bear with me please lol. Im tired, i had fuck all sleep again last night :/ my poor sick bubba man likes to keep his mumma awake! And i stress and keep myself awake too, a little cranky and delirious this morning! Anyhooo plz be patient with me while i figure out what im doing here :)